The loss of a pet can be every bit as hard as the loss of a human relative or friend. For many people, pets are members of the family, and their deaths bring just as much grief and sadness as the loss of any other family member would.
To help you cope with this loss, we’ve compiled some helpful advice that can help you through this difficult time. We understand how painful this can be, and we want to help others deal with this pain.
First, remember that grief and sadness are normal in situations like this, and that nobody can tell you how you should be feeling. Your emotions are your own, and the only way to cope with them in many cases is to accept them and let them pass. Don’t be afraid of your grief - delaying it will only make it more powerful.
Many people are also comforted by performing a funeral service or last rite for their pet. Funeral rituals have been used by humans for thousands of years to help cope with loss - and saying goodbye may help you move past your acute sadness.
In some cases, keeping a keepsake or reminder of your lost pet can help as well. Some people prefer to keep an urn of their pet’s cremated ashes, while others will plant a memorial garden or make a scrapbook or photo album. Whatever you feel will help you is fine - again, don’t worry about the opinions of people who think you’re overreacting.
Finally, make sure to not get lost in grief. It’s important for you to take care of yourself in these situations, and doubly so if you have other pets or family who depend on you. Your other animals depend on you to keep their routines, so trying to stick to your old activities can help both you and them deal with the loss. Don’t allow yourself to get swallowed by your feelings, but simply address them and try to let them go.
Everyone deals with loss and grief differently, and what works for one person may not help another. Remember, though, that your grief is your own, and you must do what you feel is right to feel better. The best thing you can do, though, is simply to remember your pet as they were during life - your friend and family member.
If you want your pet treated with dignity and respect after their life ends, contact Pet Memories. We perform pet cremations for the people of Oklahoma City and the surrounding areas, so that we can help you deal with your grief and allow you to start the process of healing. Contact us to learn more about our services and keepsake products.
